Evidence-informed sexual wellness education, intimacy coaching, workshops, and curated body-safe pleasure guidance for real-life adults and relationships.

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Evidence-Informed. Inclusive. Judgment-Free.

Education • Coaching • Workshops • Personalized Product Guidance

I help adults build the knowledge, communication skills, and confidence needed for more fulfilling relationships and intimate lives. My approach combines more than 20 years in adult sexual wellness with practical, shame-free education tailored to your real-life goals.

Whether you are navigating a life transition, rebuilding connection, exploring ENM/CNM or kink, or simply trying to understand what feels right for you, you will receive clear guidance without pressure or judgment.

Choose Your Starting Point

Support designed around your questions, relationships, and goals.

Begin with private coaching, join an educational workshop, get personalized product guidance, or explore sexual wellness resources at your own pace.

Interested in pelvic-floor support? Visit the Bloom Better pelvic-floor wellness guide.

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Private Coaching

Confidential, practical support for individuals, couples, and polycules working through communication, desire differences, reconnection, life transitions, ENM/CNM, or responsible kink.

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Workshops & Speaking

Inclusive, engaging education for conferences, communities, couples, retailers, and private groups—built around consent, confidence, communication, pleasure, and real-life application.

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Partners holding hands beneath a bouquet of pink roses

Personalized Product Guidance

Skip the overwhelm. Get body-safe, personalized recommendations based on your comfort, interests, goals, and experience—without pressure or awkward guesswork.

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Breakfast tray with flowers, orange juice, and a love note on a bed

Resources & Education

Explore approachable articles and guides created to help you understand products, communicate more confidently, and make informed choices about intimacy and sexual wellness.

"I finally feel safe to ask for what I need, and that changed everything."

– Lucy, 44

"After coaching, I learned how to name my needs and how to invite my partner into them without pressure. That shift created a new kind of intimacy — quieter, steadier, and far more fulfilling."

– April, 48

"Coaching helped us speak honestly — now our connection feels deeper than it has in years."

– Josh & Tina
Holly Schaffner, MPH, Certified Sexologist and Relationship and Intimacy Coach

Meet Holly

With more than 20 years in adult sexual wellness, Holly brings together education, coaching, and practical product expertise. She is a Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex & Kink Educator, Kink-Informed Consultant, and Relationship & Intimacy Coach.

Holly supports individuals, couples, and polycules navigating communication challenges, desire changes, peri/post-menopause and post-hysterectomy transitions, ENM/CNM, responsible kink, and confident product exploration.

Every session is inclusive, confidential, practical, and shame-free. You will leave with clearer language, useful tools, and a next step that fits your life.

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Ready for a Judgment-Free Conversation?

Start with a complimentary 30-minute discovery call. We’ll talk about what you’re looking for, answer your initial questions, and decide whether coaching, a workshop, or personalized product guidance is the best next step.